Why do we grow up?

Why do we fall?

So that we can learn to pick ourself up.

But did it happen?

Yes. We learn from our mistake.

Why do we grow up?

So that we learn more about the world.

For what?

There is a better chance to stay a life if we understand the world.

Or in other words, to be in control.

But are we really in control?

The more we feel in control, the more we worry about it going wrong. The more we worry it will go wrong, the more we do to prevent it from happen. As we do more to keep it in control, the further away we are from our power.

As we give up, everything gone with the wind, suddenly. We feel in control again, with our body fill with fresh power, again, to get back in control.

I guess that is why they have this proverb:

If we grisp hard, there is nothing inside. If we open it and relax, we've got the world in it.